Starter Kit

Queer: A Graphic History

Meg-John BarkerJules Scheele

Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships

Meg-John Barker

Why I'm No Longer Talking to White People about Race

Reni Eddo-Lodge

Relationships

Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships

Meg-John Barker

An Emotional Education

The School of Life

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find — And Keep — Love

Amir LevineRachel Heller

Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

Brené Brown

Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships

Mark A. MichaelsPatricia Johnson

Disrupting the Bystander: When #MeToo Happens Among Friends

A.V. FloxFeminista Jones

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

Sue Johnson

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

Esther Perel

More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

Franklin VeauxEve Rickert

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Jessica FernNora SamaranEve Rickert

Relationships

The School of Life

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships

Christopher RyanCacilda Jetha

Sex at Dusk: Lifting the Shiny Wrapping from Sex at Dawn

Lynn Saxon

The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love

Janet W. HardyDossie Easton

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

Esther Perel

Sexuality

Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships

Meg-John Barker

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

Esther Perel

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships

Christopher RyanCacilda Jetha

Sex at Dusk: Lifting the Shiny Wrapping from Sex at Dawn

Lynn Saxon

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

Emily Nagoski

Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships

Junor Roche

Sex Ed: A Belated Guide for Adults

Ruby Rare

Slow Sex

Diana Richardson

Slutever: Dispatches from a Sexually Autonomous Woman in a Post-Shame World

Karley Sciortino

Gender

Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships

Meg-John Barker

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

Emily Nagoski

Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships

Junor Roche

Slutever: Dispatches from a Sexually Autonomous Woman in a Post-Shame World

Karley Sciortino

Fattily Ever After: A Black Fat Girl's Guide to Living Life Unapologetically

Stephanie Yeboah

Gender: A Graphic Guide

Meg-John BarkerJules Scheele

Good Guys

David G. SmithW. Brad Johnson

How to Understand Your Gender: A Practical Guide for Exploring Who You Are

Meg-John BarkerAlex Iantaffi

King Kong Theory

Virginie DespentesFrank Wynne

Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good

adrienne maree brown

The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists

Neil Strauss

Why is John Lennon Wearing a Skirt?

Claire Dowie

Queer

Queer: A Graphic History

Meg-John BarkerJules Scheele

Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships

Meg-John Barker

Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships

Junor Roche

Gender: A Graphic Guide

Meg-John BarkerJules Scheele

How to Understand Your Gender: A Practical Guide for Exploring Who You Are

Meg-John BarkerAlex Iantaffi

Why is John Lennon Wearing a Skirt?

Claire Dowie

Gaysia: Adventures in the Queer East

Benjamin LawAaron Allbright

Growing Up Queer in Australia

Benjamin Law

Unapologetic: A Black, Queer, and Feminist Mandate for Radical Movements

Charlene Carruthers

Race

Why I'm No Longer Talking to White People about Race

Reni Eddo-Lodge

Fattily Ever After: A Black Fat Girl's Guide to Living Life Unapologetically

Stephanie Yeboah

Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good

adrienne maree brown

Unapologetic: A Black, Queer, and Feminist Mandate for Radical Movements

Charlene Carruthers

Don't Touch My Hair

Emma Dabiri

Hood Feminism: Notes from the Women That a Movement Forgot

Mikki Kendall

How to Be an Antiracist

Ibram X. Kendi

Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

Kevin A. Patterson

Me and White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor

Layla SaadRobin Diangelo

The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Pornography

Ariane Cruz

Fat positivity

Fattily Ever After: A Black Fat Girl's Guide to Living Life Unapologetically

Stephanie Yeboah

Personal Growth

Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships

Meg-John Barker

An Emotional Education

The School of Life

Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

Brené Brown

Never Split the Difference

Tahl RazChris Voss

Sex Work

Hustling Verse: An Anthology of Sex Workers' Poetry

Amber DawnJustin DuCharme

Revolting Prostitutes: The Fight for Sex Workers' Rights

Juno MacMolly Smith

We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival: Essays on Sex Work and Survival

Tina HornNatalie West

Survival

Disrupting the Bystander: When #MeToo Happens Among Friends

A.V. FloxFeminista Jones

We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival: Essays on Sex Work and Survival

Tina HornNatalie West

Community

Disrupting the Bystander: When #MeToo Happens Among Friends

A.V. FloxFeminista Jones

Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good

adrienne maree brown

Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

Kevin A. Patterson

Get Together: How to build a community with your people

Bailey RichardsonKevin HuynhKai Elmer Sotto

Humankind: A Hopeful History

Rutger BregmanElizabeth MantonEric Moore

Mutual Aid: Building Solidarity During This Crisis (and the Next)

Dean Spade

The Care Manifesto: The Politics of Interdependence

The Care Collective

Kids

A Color Named Love

M. ElleryClara Reschke

Can We Talk About Consent?

Justin HancockFuchsia MacAree

Gender Swapped Fairy Tales

Karrie FransmanJonathan Plackett

Polyamory

Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities

Kevin A. Patterson

BDSM

Kink

The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Pornography

Ariane Cruz

Porn

The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Pornography

Ariane Cruz

Psychology

Never Split the Difference

Tahl RazChris Voss

Humankind

Rutger Bregman

Psychology of Sex

Meg-John Barker

Sex

Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships

Meg-John Barker

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

Esther Perel

Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships

Christopher RyanCacilda Jetha

Sex at Dusk: Lifting the Shiny Wrapping from Sex at Dawn

Lynn Saxon

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

Emily Nagoski

Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships

Junor Roche

Sex Ed: A Belated Guide for Adults

Ruby Rare

Slow Sex

Diana Richardson

Slutever: Dispatches from a Sexually Autonomous Woman in a Post-Shame World

Karley Sciortino

Hustling Verse: An Anthology of Sex Workers' Poetry

Amber DawnJustin DuCharme

Revolting Prostitutes: The Fight for Sex Workers' Rights

Juno MacMolly Smith

We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival: Essays on Sex Work and Survival

Tina HornNatalie West

Psychology of Sex

Meg-John Barker

Politics

Revolting Prostitutes: The Fight for Sex Workers' Rights

Juno MacMolly Smith

Xenofeminism

Helen Hester

Feminism

Good Guys

David G. SmithW. Brad Johnson

Xenofeminism

Helen Hester

Difficult Women

Helen Lewis

Invisible Women

Caroline Criado Perez