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Question Box

Question
Where do I fit in within the BDSM community?
How do I deal when feeling compared to my partner’s other partner(s)?
How do I talk about my secret sexual fantasies with my partner?
How do you manage being out in certain contexts but not others?
How do you navigate ethical non-monogamy and sex-positivity when it conflicts with what is expected of you at work?
Did living an alternative lifestyle bring your sex drive back?
How do I deal with feeling compared to my partner’s other partner(s)/meta(s)?
How do I respectfully say no to meeting my meta?
How do you actually achieve self-love?
How can you learn to be happy about happy events again?
Ask me anything about race and dating with a BIPOC panel
Mental Health Check-In
What is love?
What is love?
What's luv?
I'd like to host a salon, please 🥰
My self-worth has been shattered by my acceptance of someone’s justified criticism. Is it possible to heal?
Mental Health Friday: How is your mental health this week?
Tips/how to navigate polyamory/ENM as a solo person for the first time.
Tips/how to navigating polyamory/ENM as a solo person for the first time
Has your gender, gender expression or sexuality been a barrier to living your life to the fullest?
I was not selected from the first interview I had over a year ago. Is it still okay to apply?
Would you enter into a romantic relationship with someone who was not willing to have sex with you? What you feel differently if they were sexually monogamous with their primary partner?
How can I find a man that doesn't just want to have sex with me?
Do you think pretty privilege is a thing?
Do you think Poly/ENM spaces are dominated by white people?
Where does sex begin and/or end? I would love to hear your thoughts
How can inroverts and extroverts support each other during events?
Tell me about your job, work life balance and finding meaningful work
Poetry Jam
What are your tips and tricks to embrace uncertainty?
How do you cope with losing a partner?
Have you ever safeworded during a scene in which you were domming or topping?
LVRSNFRNDS is a wonderful community, however it's beginning to feel a little stifling to me. The salons and events are fun to attend, but they're generally quite formal and not a good place for casual interaction. I'm increasingly struggling to justify paying the membership fee because I don't feel like I can easily interact with members or make new connections. What makes LVRSNFRNDS special is its curated and moderated spaces, but without a way to allow members to chat to one another, I don't feel like it's living up to its full potential. Are there any measures the mods can take to open things up a bit and allow people to interact more spontaneously and organically? Thanks!
What terms in relationships and intimacy would you like to replace, and what would you suggest instead? For example, I wish the phrase "losing your virginity" would go away (because you don't lose anything) and be replaced by "being granted your loverhood".
I’m still in the middle of this transition and find it very tricky to navigate. Triggers and feelings of unworthiness are the main issues. Does it ring the bell to you? – What are the best practices and your stories that you wouldn’t mind sharing?
Is cinema club coming back? We miss our Thursday group hang!
How do you know if ethical non-monogamy or polyamoury are right for you?
How do you deal with accumulated and repressed anger?